You just can’t. It’s not the way the world works. I have to get up every day and walk around with a bunch of entitlement and privilege — both my own, and that which floods the $treets around me — and then somehow still find myself wishing for “more.”
At the same time, you can’t give away everything, either. I’m a proponent of ‘loving enemies’ and ‘killing with kindness’…but I have to retain some for myself, too. When the status quo harbors an every-man-for-himself narcissism, kindness towards others, regardless of their stature, is often misinterpreted as weakness.
Loving unconditionally is a challenge — albeit perhaps the best kind of challenge there is.
Because maybe if you have that, then you do have everything.